"You cannot truly love someone without the freedom of choice. If someone loves you because they are programmed to love you, that is not love. In order for true love to exist, it must come out of your freedom to choose. If we were programmed to love, then we are robots, and God certainly did not create us to be robots. Hence, He took the risk of giving us the choice to accept Him..... or to reject Him. The presence of choice means that the universe is open!" Dr AR Bernard.

"As you developed patience in waiting, you develope capacity you can cope with things. Patience is capacity. Your capacity in life will determine how much you can cope with. The trials, burdens, and pains you go through to get that capacity, to carry that everyday of you life, most of us would not want them. If you have a deram or a goal, it will take time to accomplish it because in the time to get to it, God developes you in the capacity to cope with them when it turns up." Rev Dr. Phil Pringle

thoughts: gotta keep on focusing..... everyone, Jia you!.